Facing an unplanned pregnancy can feel overwhelming. It's a time of mixed emotions, uncertainty, and big decisions. You might be feeling scared, confused, or even numb. It's important to remember that you're not alone and that you have options.
At iChoose, we understand the challenges that come with an unplanned pregnancy. We're here to offer a safe and supportive space where you can explore your choices, process your feelings, and make an empowered decision about your future.
Understanding Your Options
When facing an unplanned pregnancy, it's important to take the time to understand the choices available to you. You have three main options:
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Parenting: This involves carrying your pregnancy to term and raising your child. It's a big commitment, but it can also be incredibly rewarding.
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Adoption: This involves making an adoption plan for your baby, which means choosing a loving family to raise your child.
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Abortion: This is a medical procedure that ends a pregnancy.
Things to Consider
As you explore your options, here are some things to think about:
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Your values and beliefs: What is important to you? How do your personal values and beliefs influence your views on each option?
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Your support system: Who can you rely on for emotional and practical support?
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Your financial situation: Can you afford to raise a child?
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Your living situation: Do you have a safe and stable place to live?
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Your future goals: How will each option affect your education, career, and other aspirations?
Getting the Information You Need
It's important to gather as much information as possible about your pregnancy and options before deciding. iChoose can help you with this. We offer a variety of free and confidential services, including:
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Pregnancy Testing: We offer free pregnancy tests to confirm your pregnancy.
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Limited Obstetrical Ultrasounds: We also offer limited ultrasounds to determine how far along you are in your pregnancy.
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Pregnancy Options Consultations: Our compassionate team can provide a safe space for you to discuss your feelings, explore your options, and make informed decisions about your future.
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STI/STD Testing and Treatment: We offer confidential testing and treatment for sexually transmitted infections.
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Community Referrals: We can connect you with other organizations and resources that can provide additional support, such as housing assistance, financial aid, and adoption agencies.
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After Abortion Support: If you're struggling after an abortion, we offer compassionate support and resources to help you heal and move forward.
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Parenting Classes: Learn valuable parenting skills and connect with other parents through our educational classes.
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Material Assistance: Receive essential baby items like diapers, wipes, and formula through our material assistance program.
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Fatherhood Program: We have a program specifically for men to help them understand their role and options in an unplanned pregnancy.
Making Your Decision
Ultimately, the decision about your pregnancy is yours alone. Don't let anyone pressure you into a decision you're not comfortable with. Take your time, weigh your options carefully, and consider what aligns best with your values, beliefs, and hopes for the future.
Wrapping Up
Exploring your options after an unplanned pregnancy is an important step in taking control of your future. Remember, you're not alone. iChoose is here to support you every step of the way, offering compassionate care, accurate information, and a safe space to explore your choices.
If you're facing an unplanned pregnancy, please don't hesitate to contact iChoose. We're here to listen, offer guidance, and help you find the support you need. You can call us, text us, or schedule an appointment online.